Lyrics 1035 and I Hope I Make the Right Decision Rationalize Until I Am Blue in the Face
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iamasurvivor (original poster member #29728) posted at 2:25 PM on Friday, July 13th, 2012
This year has been a very busy year for me. My divorce was final in Feb. our daughter graduated from college in May, I bought a house the end of May and my Dad died the first week of June! I had a job offer from out of the blue and for about a week I was dealing with do I take this and learn something new or stay doing what I have been doing the last 15 years! I am good at what I do and was making ok money. The new job pays all my insurance and will pay what I was going to be making at my current job. No more "weekends" which I found very appealing, that will give me more time to help my mom.
So today is one of my last days on my current job and I am praying that I made a good decision! I know some of the people at my new job, I worked with one of them for eight years and the other one for about 6 years, so that is a great bonus and the company is a good place to work. People who work there usually stay there until they move away or retire!
But I am sad to be leaving my current job, I have met some good people and they have been there when I really needed support. I know I will keep in touch with them, but its not going to be the same!
I will come out stronger!
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 3:44 PM on Friday, July 13th, 2012
Hi IAAS,
read your OWN sig line. Now 
You will do great! You are doing your best and you have made some tough choice and survived some tough situations.
You will do great! Just keep on keeping on! 
Exit Wounds
H of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:30 PM on Friday, July 13th, 2012
You have a LOT of positive things going on, all right in a row! Go with it! 
I'm waiting to close on the sale of my house and then the purchase of another, and waiting to finalize a recent job offer, changing from a longtime position currently, so I understand completely. And my son just graduated from high school.
But I think that the stars aligning this way mean something, and change is not always a bad thing. Go with it, and enjoy!!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
iamasurvivor (original poster member #29728) posted at 12:24 PM on Saturday, July 14th, 2012
Exit, you are right! I have done very well with my decisions so far and my kids and family are very proud of what I have accomplished! I am happy with my life, I just wish I had a SO to share it with.
Persevere, you do know what I am going thru! Good luck with all your moving, it is such a pain but it is a great feeling when you can so welcome to "My" new home!
I will come out stronger!
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 2:49 PM on Saturday, July 14th, 2012
What a whirlwind for you! I am so sorry about the loss of your father. Congratulations on the new job and on your daughter's graduation! Remember that even the good changes are stressful. Take time to take care of you among all the moving and shaking!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:35 PM on Sunday, July 15th, 2012
You are living the saying, when doors close others will open.
You are definitely on an up swing so sing along.
Pssst...one of those unopened doors will probably be a SO when the time is right.
Just remember your Dad would be so proud of you for trying a new direction in your life.
Better4me is right. Take care of yourself during all the new changes !
gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
iamasurvivor (original poster member #29728) posted at 3:08 AM on Monday, July 16th, 2012
Thanks Gma56,
I have to have faith that if it wasn't meant to be they wouldn't have come after me. They made a very good offer!
My life has just been very hectic and the next two weeks are going to be crazier! Our sons wedding is the 28th of July and I am doing the rehearsal dinner. So I have been busy figuring out what I am going to make and have been baking all day today.
I am not looking forward to seeing the Xh but my family is all going to be there and his family also and I can't wait to see them. It has been a couple of years since we have seen them and it is always fun to spend time with them. We always talk on the phone or skype, but it's not the same.
I will come out stronger!
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